Do you feel like you’re failing at a “script” you never signed up for? When you find yourself in the space between rejecting old scripts but not yet knowing what your new scripts will be, the weight of the unknown can be paralyzing. Most challenges are fueled by a fear of being ‘wrong.’ I help you move past those ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ binaries and develop a deep relationship with your own intuition. When you are no longer fighting yourself, you have the energy to truly connect with others.

I specialize in the topics that many therapists shy away from. I help individuals and couples reclaim intimacy by addressing desire differences, sexual “addictions”, or performance anxiety. Whether we are navigating transitions into non-monogamy, or healing from infidelity, we’ll work on the practical skills to help you say ‘yes’ and ‘no’ with confidence.

I bring my lived experience as a Queer, Trans, Latine therapist to help you navigate the complex intersections of power and identity. My style is direct yet deeply kind; I provide the ‘gentle accountability’ needed to break old patterns. I’m not here to tell you how to live; I’m here to help you communicate your needs and find what actually works for you.

Some areas I explore with clients include:

• Men & Masculinity
• Infidelity
• Boundaries & Communication
• Out of Control Sexual Behavior or “Sex Addiction”
• Gender & Sexual Identity Development
• Asexuality
• Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
• Divorce & Uncoupling
• Multicultural Relationships
• Parasocial Relationships
• ADHD & Neurodivergence
• Spirituality
• Grief, Loss, & Transitions